[剧情讨论] 308里B的那番话到底应该怎么理解？

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貌似我今天提了好几个问题……因为仍在中毒中，又刚刚加入大组织，所以问题比较多，希望斑竹别以为我是在灌水哈……

S308里B借故要炒掉小J的时候，有下面一段对话：

J：……You would've told me that you loved me. That you would go on loving me, even after I was gone.
B：Is that what you were waiting to hear?
J：Yes. But as usual, you never said it, so it's just as well that I go.
B：That's so like you. You don't hear what you want so you leave. Thy standing up for yourself for a change.（很喜欢Brian在说这句话时的语气和表情！）

如果我理解没错的话，他说小J总是在还没有听到自己想听的话的时候就离开，让他自己去试图改变一些什么。

可是，第二季小J离开的时候那么直白的说过他想要的是什么，而B也很直接的告诉他I won't say it。现在说的这些，又是什么意思呢？

各位怎么解读？